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forscooter 04-16-2009 07:25 PM

Hello All!
 
Thanks, Nat for making space!!!!

I am just getting back from my vacation....am more tired than ever, LOL!

I am off to bed and will be back bc I am just getting in...but I do have a favor!

Bailey is doing well so far...but I am off tomorrow morning first thing to hopefully deal with a matter regarding my human boy. I am feeling totally overwhelmed with just getting home and having to go do this and with all that has been happening could use all the prayers and thoughts and support I can tomorrow morning...

sooo....if you have a moment to spare, could you please help me ask for a little help from up above that this gets resolved in the best possible way and I can move on past this additional stressor...

you have all helped me get through some really bad spots and this is a really bad spot....I know with your help, everything will be all right...

Love ya! And will be back to catch up soon as soon as I can see straight!!
Beth, Bailey and always Scoobie

John II 04-16-2009 07:35 PM

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Beth, Bailey and Scoobie,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I hope whatever this extra stresser may be disappears quickly and as you say "in the best possible way".

Hugs,

John II

k9diabetes 04-16-2009 09:49 PM

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Everything here... three pairs of whiskers, five pairs of ears, three tails, twenty toes, twenty fingers, three sets of paws, five sets of eyes, and most of our brain cells are crossed for a good outcome for the two of you!!! >^..^< >^..^< ^..^ :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Natalie

LuvMyMunchie 04-16-2009 10:06 PM

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Beth, so glad to see you. Prayers and good vibes for you and your son, my friend....you can count on em!

Thinking positive thoughts this very second....

LuvYa,
Louise

SachiMom 04-16-2009 10:09 PM

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Beth,
I am so glad you are here. You can count on tons of prayers and well wishing thoughts are with you as you complete this next task in life.
Enough is enough and you definitely deserve a break.
May the outcome be what you want.
Tons of Love & Prayers
~ Mary Ann

mytil 04-17-2009 02:50 AM

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Bethy,

Count me in too girl. I sure am glad you posted.

Love you
Terry

BestBuddy 04-17-2009 03:21 AM

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Hey Beth,
Sending those positive vibes across the waves.
Jenny

lleigh 04-17-2009 03:34 AM

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Beth,

I am with you too! Hope all goes well.

Lyn

labblab 04-17-2009 04:54 AM

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Beth, I'm so grateful to see you here, and I'm mustering every positive vibe that is in me and shooting all that energy directly to you!!!!!!!!!

Marianne

Dollydog 04-17-2009 05:40 AM

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Hi Beth,
I'm going to pray that everything works out very smoothly for your human boy and that everyone who is looking after him will do just exactly what is needed for him to have a positive, constructive life!!!
I still need to send a personal email....
Jo-Ann & Lady :)

frijole 04-17-2009 05:55 AM

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Heh crazy girl - more prayers coming from me and mine. Hang tough and know we care. Kim and girls

forscooter 04-17-2009 10:56 AM

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Geez, I miss you all!!! I do hope to get back on here a little more....it just keeps rolling!!!

Thank you thank you thank you!!! I was soooo anxious this morning and I kept telling myself I have a whole bunch of people with me...I got through it. Not to get into all the gory details (that's a change, huh? ;)) but my son is having problems with his father who is forcing us back to court to resolve it. This all started when my mom died, when he came and upset my father in the nastiest way....and has been continuing since then...I barely have had any time to grieve dealing with all of this.

Things did not get resolved but I think we are getting closer. I just really hate dealing with the man who was so mentally abusive and a complete liar the whole time I was with him....I almost lost myself and my sanity. Although I am much stronger now, I still reel when I have to deal with him at all. And now he is doing to my son what he did to me...and I have to have the courage to see this through...win or lose.

Allo is such a bright spot, in other news. Although he is clamoring to get outside, which I don't want bc of things like cars, he is such a complete joy...

Bailey is being our Bailey...although I am noticing more stiffness of late and the eye cyst keeps bleeding on and off. He is doing that jerking thing more pronounced lately too. The vet said it's the falling asleep jerk, but it isn't. I know my boy and I know the difference. He sleeps much more now but seems content otherwise. I am doing the Lyso depending on how he seems that week. All I can ask for is contentment and joy for him. Now with the warmer weather, as slowly as it is coming, I hope to get his legs moving a bit more.

I enjoyed my time away...although I fess up I missed my furry boys in the worst way. I also got a rash all over my legs, LOL....why not??? But it's manageable.

I am planning on coming back tonight to catch up with everyone else...I just had to come and THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!!! My friends and family have rallied around me....and you are all a part of that...

I hope everyone is doing VERY WELL and I will be back later to read up. Right now, I need a nap in the worst way! Last day of vacation technically and we got in late last night.

Thanks so much again....my love and best to you all and our pups and I'll see you hopefully tonight!!!!
Beth and the crew

zoesmom 04-17-2009 11:28 AM

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Glad you're back but I'm sure you could have used a lot more R & R.
Quote:

Originally Posted by forscooter (Post 11163)
I know with your help, everything will be all right...

Love ya! And will be back to catch up soon as soon as I can see straight!!
Beth, Bailey and always Scoobie

This, too, shall pass. I know it's rough....the whole court thing. My son seems to be waiting - continually - for one or another court date with his ex. Just keep reminding yourself that it will be ok. Is your son getting anywhere close to legal adulthood? Sorry, I forget his age other than teen-age!

Sending a truckload of positive thoughts and prayers for both you and your human boy (and Bailey and Allo too, of course!) Sue

Squirt's Mom 04-17-2009 01:26 PM

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Hi sweetie,

So glad to see you here and glad you enjoyed your vacation....but Sue right...you could have used a lot longer with all you have been through this last year.

That so called "man" and "father" isn't anywhere close to me is he? I could do with kicking some butt right about now and he sure sounds like a good candidate! :mad: Mean to you? your son? your poor dad? grrrrrrrrrrrrr :mad: I firmly believe, tho, that a special hell is set up just for those type folks where one much meaner than they will give as to them as they gave to others.

How is the foot doing? I accidentally touched Ruby the other nite with my foot and she had it in her mouth in 2 sec flat but didnt' apply any pressure once she knew. I couldn't help but think of you. :o

Hope you get some rest today and know we are all with you....well not napping per se, but you know....:p

Hugs and prayers,
Leslie and the girls

maggiebeagle 04-17-2009 05:01 PM

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Hope you got that nap. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Virginia and Maggie

forscooter 04-17-2009 06:21 PM

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Oh it is sooooo good to see you all! Never got the nap...too wound up! The house is clean though!

Sue, we have 2.5 years left....Leslie, yes at my mom's viewing no less. And then he sat and laughed about it until he got asked for the second time to please LEAVE.

The foot is s-l-o-w-l-y healing. Scar tissue is the main problem now so going to PT twice a week now. They think he hit bone too so that's probably contused. It is feeling better except for that one spot where the scar tissue is all balled up. I think PTs are really sadists in disguise (no offense, some of my bestest friends are PTs!:)).

My sister-in-law got 9 stitches in her hand from her rottie over Easter though. She was trying to break up a fight between her two dogs and chomp. It's all infected now. It must be dog bite season!

Virgina, how are you???? I am so glad you found it here!

Thanks for hanging with me!! And all the support! I am one step away from complete lunacy!!! For real this time....OK, Scott, I've always been this way...
Love ya! Beth, Bailey and always Scoobie

Dollydog 04-17-2009 07:38 PM

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I'm with Leslie....that man sounds like a good candidate for my frustrations and anger right now. How do some people face themselves in the mirror?

Hope you can rest up some more on the weekend and I'll keep praying for your son,
Jo-Ann & Lady

LuvMyMunchie 04-17-2009 07:50 PM

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Quote:

Oh it is sooooo good to see you all! Never got the nap...too wound up! The house is clean though!
It is soooooooo good to see you too! If you continue to be wound up and need to work off some excess energy....my house could use a good cleaning, along with my yard, my garage, etc. Hey, as a special treat I'd let you clean my blender and then I could mix up a batch of "special" margaritas! (ahhha-ha-ha-ha) :D

Hope you get a good night's sleep. Sending scritchies for Bailey and Allo.

Louise & Munchmeister

barney's mom 04-17-2009 08:03 PM

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:D:D:D
BethyPoo! It is so nice to see you!

Cheryl

gpgscott 04-18-2009 03:27 PM

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Hi Beth,

I am just getting to this forum after a couple of crazy days.

I am glad you are home and very sorry that you had to deal with unpleasantness first thing.

My prayers and support for you with the others.

Scott

ventilate 04-18-2009 05:57 PM

Re: Hello All!
 
Beth;
glad to see you back, sorry about the court thing, but you have delt with a lot worse than that POS, he has no idea who he is dealing with now.
Keep well
missed ya
S,N and DS( see my thread)

Truffa's Mom 04-19-2009 10:13 PM

Re: Hello All!
 
Hello Beth!!!!

I am very glad to see you here!!!!. Everything will be OK, Everything will be OK, Everything will be OK, Everything will be OK, I know there is justice.

I don't know who Allo is but it sounds adorable!!!!

I'll keep praying for you and your family. Choco kisses to you, Bailey and Allo.

Marcela & The Choco labs

forscooter 04-21-2009 04:00 AM

Re: Hello All!
 
Thank you all for your kindness and support! It was a bad weekend...had to call the police bc he sent a vague threat through my son Saturday morning to me. Spent yesterday talking to my lawyer and there is nothing we can do but proceed with the next step. He suffers no consequence as usual. So, I've just been reeling. Do I need this right now???? No....

But I wanted to come and say thank you and let you know how much your support all means to me....I swear I am going to lose my mind soon...

Love ya! Beth and all the boys

we3dogs 04-21-2009 02:24 PM

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I need to run out to a quick meeting - just wanted to chime in quickly. This is sssooooo not right. I love Sharon's reference to the POS - it took me a fewn seconds then I got it! Aaarrrggghhhh!

k9diabetes 04-23-2009 09:20 AM

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Beth,

I am so sorry to hear about the POS. If only you could divorce every connection to someone like that...

Glad you called the police and I hope that they took the initiative to have an intense talk with him. He may not be the type for that to work but I have seen it work a half a dozen times. Sometimes the police putting the fear of god into them will make them behave better as they don't want to suffer any consequences.

I don't know what the laws are like there. Here if the threat is credible and without conditions, it is a crime - that is if he says he's going to hurt you without saying "if you don't... whatever" and he's in a geographic and physical condition to actually carry it out.

Not that mind games are better, but I hope it's "only" mind games, that you are not physically in danger.

I would give a lot to be able to ease your burdens right now... I'm pretty sure I would completely crack under the pressure you are under. They'd be taking me away in a special truck...

Natalie

Roxee'sDad 04-23-2009 07:03 PM

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Hi Beth,
Stay strong girl, never let him see you sweat, be stronger than him. Keeping good thoughts and prayers for you and yours.
John (Roxee's Dad)

Wylie's Mom 04-24-2009 01:37 PM

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Okay, I'm clueless...what does POS stand for:confused:?
-Susy

Lulusmom 04-24-2009 01:44 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom (Post 12260)
what does POS stand for?

You've got mail. :D

Wylie's Mom 04-24-2009 01:54 PM

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Okay...so it doesn't mean Point-of-Sale:p

barney's mom 04-24-2009 04:14 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Lulusmom (Post 12261)
You've got mail. :D

:D Good work Glynda!

barney's mom 04-24-2009 04:19 PM

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Ya know Beth, there are many other uses for that blender, including the disposal of all those extra body parts and useless appendages that he may be afflicted with. :eek:
just saying.....


Oh......and could it wait till fall maybe? Margaritas are in season now :)

forscooter 04-24-2009 06:29 PM

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And you know what? You all are about the only ones who can make me laugh over all this crap!!!!:D

See, it's your own fault! This is why you have to listen to "As Beth Days Turn" bc I love you all for making even the worst situation more tolerable!!!

Susy, I almost peed myself laughing! Nice save Glynda! :D And fire up the blender! You have noooooo idea how much I would looooove to do that!

Nat, I don't think he would do anything physical....but therein lies the problem. He is sick...and he loves to torture me....so I really don't know what he is capable of and I don't trust him at all. This isn't about his great love for our son....this is all about power and control and trying to keep me in line and in his life and in his twisted mind, still a part of his life...and he's mad as he** bc I told him off after he laughed at my father at my mom's viewing! This has been going on since that time believe it or not.

Then Bailey bites me....my furnace broke...and I really think Steph should get me on CMT bc my life is like even the saddest country song gone really really bad....

Next step is an eval with a psych who will finally let my son tell his story...and then hopefully he or she will see through my ex (who is very charming when he wants to be...think Ted Bundy and how many people did he fool?)...I am just praying so hard right now that we can get some distance! Mostly for my son bc I do have an order that he can only email me now and is not allowed to call me. So I do have a cushion but I need some space for my son bc he really is going through some "stuff" right now with all of this.

And tonight Bailey did the jumping out of his skin thing three times just now...I wish I knew when it was coming so I could tape it....

Love you all tons!!! Thanks for making me laugh!!!! I can't tell you how much I needed that! Beth, Bailey, always Scoobie and Allo (the catdog)

barney's mom 04-25-2009 08:58 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by forscooter (Post 12327)
And you know what? You all are about the only ones who can make me laugh over all this crap!!!!:D



Then Bailey bites me....my furnace broke...and I really think Steph should get me on CMT bc my life is like even the saddest country song gone really really bad....
Beth, Bailey, always Scoobie and Allo (the catdog)

Nah Beth....David Allen Coe says that the perfect country and western song has to include trains, you are safe for now.......... :D
Cheryl

Dollydog 04-26-2009 03:35 PM

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Well look at this....another David Allan Coe fan!!! And that is one of my favorites!.
Jo-Ann & Lady :)

barney's mom 04-26-2009 07:07 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Dollydog (Post 12528)
Well look at this....another David Allan Coe fan!!! And that is one of my favorites!.
Jo-Ann & Lady :)

"before I could get to the station in my pickup truck............" :D
My favorite is "just to prove my love to you."

Cheryl

Dollydog 04-27-2009 05:53 AM

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I sent a PM to Susy asking what POS stands for and she hasn't responded. Does someone else want to enlighten me? :p Even my hubby doesn't know what it stands for!!

Roxee'sDad 04-27-2009 05:57 AM

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Politely put:

Piece of (poop):):o:rolleyes::D;)

The S doesn't stand for Spam ;)

Dollydog 04-27-2009 07:39 AM

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Thank you...Susy PM'd the translation. It's almost lady-like compared to what I would call people who mentally torture partners and children. :mad:
Jo-Ann & Lady

corgipallie 04-27-2009 05:02 PM

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Ha ha! I'll see what I can do! That's a great show pitch! hahahahaha!
"My Life Is a Sad Country Song."

Seriously though, I am hoping that POS stays far away. You're too good for him.

forscooter 04-27-2009 05:19 PM

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I think this may be our big money-maker, Steph! Pay off all those vet bills everywhere!!!! AND pay for the Cushing's convention!

OK, I know what a POS is but what is a David Allan Coe??:confused::confused: Is he the country version of Poe???

And Cheryl, you have already proven your love for me!;):D

Bailey is barely eating these days....seems fine otherwise. But no food, no Lysodren. I think he's a bit upset bc I pulled the table food from being mixed with his food. But he needs to get svelte for summer so we are at a stalemate here....plus, it isn't like him not to eat well....so we wait....we all know what a good "waiter" I am!:mad:

Love ya! Beth, Bailey, always my Scoobie, and Allo too!


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